You’ve probably talked with someone who suddenly went off on you for no good reason. You’re like whaaa… what just happened?
Lately, getting a knee jerk reaction is easy if you mention something that others perceive to be opposed to their political viewpoint. Many have linked their well being and ability to be free on somebody outside themselves.
By the way, the only person who can make you happy and fulfilled is you. So don’t give away your power to anyone.
Now that you’ve got an idea of what I’m talking about, let’s bring it closer to home with your goals and some of your reactions.
Maybe you don’t lash out like Lucy did in her skit “Slowly I Turn,” which is found at the end of this TIP, but you feel that way inside.
For example, what response do you feel in your gut or heart when you hear or think about any of these:
- You need money that you don’t have, and then you have visions of being in a stagecoach heading off the cliff (okay, I’m still watching a lot of old westerns).
- You compare your success to others and decide you’re not keeping up with the Joneses, whoever they are – and what do they have to do with your life anyway?
- You think you’re not accomplishing your goals fast enough and want to cry in your beer over remorse for not having had a better life – particularly disconcerting if you don’t drink beer.
These very emotions then attract more emotions to match!
And that’s why, if your life or business suck in some way, it starts with you.
To manifest anything other than the uglies, it’s essential to feel good REGARDLESS of your outer circumstances.
If you’re ready for something better, then change your perspective This is 100% in your power to do.
When you see life from a different vantage point, your feelings change.
This creates Good Feeling Mojo, and you ignite your momentum for more things that will inspire you to feel good.
Most people react emotionally to circumstances.
You can use your head, too.
How do you know what you’re doing? Look at your life.
Ready for something more or better?
Your TIP is to let go of ONE trigger to which you reflexively react.
Why only one? Because by releasing one pattern, there’s an entourage of others attached to it that will go away, too.
If you continue to get results you don’t want, I invite you to contact me about how to break free of going in circles at vg@ResolvedForResults.com
Now to demonstrate triggers, watch this funny, classic I Love Lucy clip.
It’s only 3 1/2 minutes. You can find the time.
Soulgoals' Blog 