What turns you on?
Do you dutifully go through day-to-day living?
Are you simply trying to make the best of your lot in life or do you complain about it and others?
Or do you know that, if you allow yourself to redirect your focus, your life can be sensational?
A few minutes ago, I returned from a tango performance by an Argentinian dance company.
The audience was wild with excitement.
The precision talent of the dancers, singers and musicians was inspiring.
However, unlike most everyone who watched, it didn’t ignite my passion.
If you’ve read my TIPS lately, you know I’ve attended several performances that sent me soaring.
The common denominator is that each uplifted me. Coupled with extraordinary talent, I walked away smiling a big YES to life.
Here’s what I noticed doesn’t turn me on.
Watching a drunk destroy his life and lose his disheartened woman after causing her misery.
Forcing a woman to be with him against her will – even dragging her.
Rivalry, jealousy and an uncaring spirit.
People being mean and cold to each other.
Violent knife fights.
Yes, this is art, and, of course, there’s freedom of expression.
Perhaps this was all to make a point to demonstrate consequences.
Yes, worse exists in this world.
Personally, I don’t find watching these uplifting or life-affirming.
The energy we fill ourselves with – drama or joy or fear – is what we’ll find mirrored in daily life, too.
I’ve learned a secret. It’s why some succeed and others struggle.
The secret is found in what you focus on and how it makes you feel.
If you focus on misery and what makes you feel bad, you attract misery in your life.
Focusing on what makes you feel good brings you more things that make you feel good.
A friend told me that she’s turning into her mother – complaining.
The result? My friend felt depressed and hopeless.
She said she was whining and wine-ing too much.
Her mother died of cancer in her fifties. She believes her attitudes ate away at her, just like the cancer.
My friend woke up to what she was doing and made a decision to choose life – change her own attitude; watch what she was putting in her body; take care of herself better; focus on her goals and dreams instead of her limiting situation.
Focusing on negatives or mediocrity can keep you stuck.
You can focus on the bad and the ugly or the good and beautiful.
Remember, where your attention goes, energy flows. You’ll create more of the same.
If you focus on what makes you happy, your life is waay more enjoyable, too.
Feeling good is the master key to manifest the life and business of your dreams.
Life sucks for everyone at times. But where you focus and how you respond is a CHOICE.
Your TIP is to identify one or more things that ignite your passion… and go for it.
Yeah, yeah. You’re busy and have a lot of responsibilities. You gotta make money. You gotta do a lotta things. You really don’t have time. You feel exhausted. Others are depending on you.
You are depending on you, too!
This is your life. What are you doing to enjoy it?
What are you doing to take care of yourself?
What turns you on?
The company of supportive people who unconditionally care about you is a godsend.
This is one of the benefits of our mastermind teams.
For me, I love what I do helping people do what they love so their dreams come true.
And I believe my passion will be ignited when later this week I see The Temptations and The Four Tops in concert. I’ll let you know on my next TIP.
Virginia works with people who long to share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how or feel stuck. She helps them ignite their Soul’s goals and be richly compensated doing what they love.
For more information on upcoming mastermind teams or a complimentary Do What You Love Break-Free Session, email Virginia at vg@ResolvedForResults.com