Posts Tagged ‘Lack’

Do You Believe in You?

May 16, 2022


Society grooms us not to trust or believe in ourselves. Instead, we’ve been trained in self-doubt.

We’ve been taught to elevate the opinion of others, to question ourselves, especially when compared to the power of spiritual forces, experts, leaders, books, spouses, family, friends, bosses, teachers, doctors, world events and even TV commercials.

However, if we don’t learn to trust and believe in ourselves, we’ll be at the mercy of the whims and, very often, limited ideas of others.

If you think there’s something wrong with you, you’ll attract experiences to validate that your beliefs are true.

If you shift your perspective to see yourself as a divine child or a child of an unlimited universe, you open yourself to receive greater abundance, success, love, happiness and health. 

97% of human bodies are made of stardust, and an analysis of over 150,000 stars in our Milky Way galaxy proved this is literally true.

The Crosby, Stills & Nash song was right: “We are stardust. We are golden. We are billion year old carbon.”

So stop making yourself small. Your heritage is divinely celestial! 

If you don’t believe in you, why should anyone else?

If you don’t believe in you, how will you be able to tune in to your inner guidance, the sweet whispers of direction from within? How will you be able to distinguish it from the nagging voice in your head of fear, worry, doubt and self-belittlement?

If you’re waiting for others, many who live by flawed beliefs, to recognize your worth, you may be better served by recognizing your own value.

Consider this. If others don’t believe in themselves, they aren’t capable of fully believing in you.


Be vigilant about how you picture yourself.

Do you see aspects of yourself as not good enough? Can you see how your life would change if you believed you have access to infinite possibilities, even if you don’t have a clue as to how to manifest them?

Right now, breathe and take a moment for yourself. Breathe and go beyond the chatter of others and your thoughts.

The more you practice this, the more you’ll discover your self-worth and that you are deeply loved.

When you tap into this essence of you, you feel good about yourself.

When you feel good about yourself, you open to receive abundance and success as you go beyond lack– lack of love, money, time, health, business, fun, acceptance, respect and happiness.

And you believe in you!

Edited excerpt from Soulgoals’ Blog, November 13, 2017


If you’d like support
to believe in yourself more
and the benefits it can bring,

contact me
for a complimentary
Soulgoals’ Break-Free Session
by phone.

Email me at:
virginia@soulgoals.com

I work with people who choose to
enhance their lives or share 
their gifts 
in a BIGGER way 
but
don’t know how, feel stuck or could 
use new tools or support.

I help them be richly compensated doing what
they love by connecting with their Soul’s goals.

Annoying People in Your Life?

April 4, 2022

A client was annoyed because she consistently attracted unqualified customers.

One got nastily irate when she told him that his application didn’t go through.  Although she quickly let him go as a customer, she knew she had to change her focus to stop attracting dodo birds – who went extinct centuries ago.

Whatever you focus on, talk or think about grows.

In the past, she complained about how many applicants didn’t qualify. Because she focused on lack, what she didn’t want and have, she kept attracting more applicants who didn’t qualify.

Now she focuses her attention on having great applicants who both qualify and purchase her high-end products, all with grace and ease.

Her new perspective is working.

Are there similar (annoying) types of people or circumstances showing up in your life again and again?

Here’s how you can gain clarity about what you’re doing to attract that and release the energy.

Journal about how you feel when the dodo birds get you down. For example, you can write about:

  • Does how you feel remind you of how you felt about people or events from your past?
  • When you notice the patterns, observe them and choose to let them go.
  • Replace them by writing about your ideal perspective.
  • After, refocus on your wonderful dreams and goals instead of what you don’t want.

WRITING, not just thinking about, what’s bothering you can help you SEE what you’re thinking and doing to create this what-the-#(!X&!! in your life. You’re worth the time to discover what’s going on AND turn it around.

It’s time to soar with the eagles. You deserve it.


Know someone who might enjoy reading this? Please forward.

If you’d like help to soar with the eagles, contact me
about a complimentary Soulgoals’ Break-free Session at 
virginia@soulgoals.com

I work with people who choose to have a better life or business but don’t know how, feel stuck or would benefit from new tools or support.

I help them be richly compensated doing what they love by connecting with their Soul’s goals.

Edited excerpt from a July 31, 2017 Soulgoals’ post

Copyright © 2022 Soulgoals, All rights reserved.