What do you have to have? It might be more money, love, health, harmony, happiness or anything.
You feel you need this so much that inside your head you’re practically begging for it.
Consider this quote by Abraham-Hicks. Even though the focus is about money, it applies to whatever you want.
Have ta, gotta. Seems quite desperate. Sounds obligatory, not fun… and hard to get.
“Have to” makes what you want so BIG that it can seem a very daunting task to ever get it. A goal you want but can’t possibly achieve.
Here’s another point. Think about someone, imaginary or real, who has to have you in their life. They need you. Chase after you. They just gotta have you or else their life will fall apart.
Makes you want to run the other way, right?
Same thing applies to money, love, happiness or anything.
Desperate energy repels the very thing you want.
“Have to” can make you feel like a rebellious kid running away from what you believe you have to do.
Hard feels like a daunting task that you might not be up to do.
Instead, be empowered.
Choose.
Annoyed, a woman challenged me when I told her this. “I have to have a job because I have to have money. What do you want me to do, lose my house?”
I responded to choose to keep her house. “Shift your focus, and your desperation won’t chase away prospective employers who could hire you.”
She found a job.
Like attracts like. What is your energy attracting?
Break the habit of saying that you “have to” have or “have to” do something.
Instead, substitute the word “choose.” By doing this, you tap into a higher, creative energy within you to make more money or achieve any goal.
Test the difference now by using these words in a sentence. Think of something you desire. Put it in a sentence by using a variety of words, found in the examples below.
- I want more money. (This is pretty weak and generic. Not a strong statement.)
- I gotta have more money. (Sounds a bit desperate with underlying energy to match.)
- I have to have more money. (Feels like you could add “or else all is lost” – desperate again.)
- I don’t know what I’ll do if I don’t get more money. (Poor little, pitiful you.)
- I choose to have more money. (Can you feel how this determination is empowering?)
When you feel empowered, you have the energy to find clarity and do what it takes to attract, create or find the money or anything you choose!
Create a new habit of stopping yourself, even mid-sentence, so you speak words in a conscious way.
Every word you speak is an affirmation. Your energy and words are attracting whatever you say. From your lips to God’s ears.
Additionally, you’re reprogramming your brain to shift to actually having what you choose instead of just wishing you had it or feeling desperate or like a victim.
When you tune into this energy more and more, you’ll naturally stop your language of limitation and replace it with those that manifest results.
Be vigilant with your words because they reflect your thoughts and feelings and thereby create your outer world.
Wonder why you don’t quite get what you want or have to have sometimes? Learn how to recognize and change the words you speak.
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