Posts Tagged ‘Feel Confused’

Confused About What to Do?

March 7, 2022

Once I had a dream where I was in a room with no windows or doors and seemingly no way out.  I searched the walls for a way to leave, but there wasn’t any.

Then I discovered that there was a stairway in the middle of the room that took me to a higher level, and that room was filled with lots of windows, doors and light.

Albert Einstein is paraphrased to have said:

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”

Feeling stuck is an emotional response that can leave you feeling there’s no way out. Instead, you can find a way to untangle yourself from whatever has gotten you balled up and take productive action.

Here are four pointers that can help:

1. You’re frustrated because you’re trying to control the outcome by expecting it (or people) to be or act the way you think it should. 

Alternative:  Relax and anticipate this or something better will occur. Stop trying to micromanage the world. This opens you to tune into new ideas and directions.

2. You’re beating yourself up with fear, worry, regrets or other limiting thoughts and emotions because of your situation. 

Alternative: Let go of judging yourself, others and your circumstances. Replace it with an empowering perspective that you’re learning, and all is in divine order and timing.

3. You’re focused on what’s not working. 

Alternative: Focus on what you choose and the good feeling mojo it creates. Good feeling mojo is what opens you to manifest more quickly and with grace and ease.

4. You’re pushing to make things happen. 

Alternative: Stop resisting (and exhausting yourself about) what is and allow things to be the way they are. You getting fussy about it won’t change it or help. Let go. Let God. Set new goals for what you choose. Then take action from this perspective.


There’s a part of you that doesn’t have a clue about what to do. Another part knows!! You have the ability to stop listening to your confusion or asking others what you should do.

Instead, find your answers within. 

How? Start to believe in yourself a little bit more. Ask the part of you that knows the answer (it’s there even if you’re oblivious to it) and write about your situation from that perspective. Even if it feels silly or make-believe when you begin.

Journal with an intention to gain clarity; you might surprise yourself with insights.  Give yourself permission to receive answers.

When you shift your perspective, you allow life to create miracles and successes beyond your wildest expectations, and the way out appears… often only one step at a time. Even if the next step is to pause, quiet your thoughts, and just BE.


If you’d like help finding clarity,
contact me for a free phone consultation at:
virginia@soulgoals.com

I work with people who choose to
enhance their lives or

share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck or could 
use new tools or support.

I help them be richly compensated doing what
they love by connecting with their Soul’s goals.


Edited excerpt from my January 25, 2016, Soulgoals’ post.

Copyright © 2022 Soulgoals, All rights reserved.

The Ukrainian flag flying free!
#NoWarPlease

HEALTHY & WEALTHY LIVING IN AUSTIN

October 31, 2015

You know how it feels when so many things aren’t working that you want to pull a blanket over your head and never come out?

That’s what happened to me in the early 90’s, and that brokenness was my turning point. My personal and professional breakthrough not only brought me back to life, it was the foundation to help others share their gifts with the world.

For the very first time ever publicly, you’ll discover how what I learned can help you as I share my story From Burnt Out to Turned On – Be Richly Compensated Doing What You Love Faster and Easier than You Dreamed Possible!

Please join us next Friday, November 6, at HEALTHY & WEALTHY LIVING IN AUSTIN, a Professional Women’s Group. Guys, if you’d like to come and be surrounded by women, you’re welcome, too!

We’ll meet at Strange Brew Austin Coffee Shop, 5326 Manchaca Rd, Austin, TX 78745. (map)

Meeting starts at 9:30 AM.

No reservations are needed, and it’s free!

This is what you’ll discover:

Many people feel discontent because they know in their hearts that their business or life can be so much more.  My talk especially hits home for those who may feel stuck, confused or don’t know how to create more money, success or really enjoy what they’re doing… and it doesn’t matter if they’re just starting out or a seasoned professional.

Here are some take-aways from my talk:

  • Learn how to be turned on instead of burnt out with your business and life.
  • Find out how to design and manifest your business or a passion-filled life that YOU create where you’re richly compensated doing what you love.
  • Experience a simple tool to transform any confusion and worry into clarity, inspiration and action.
  • Discover the #1 obstacle holding back your success and an easy technique to stop it.
  • Understand the power of masterminding and how to access it to manifest your goals and dreams beyond your wildest expectations.
  • Reveal how support can help you achieve your goals faster and easier than trying to do everything on your own.

Virginia GoszewskasVirginia Goszewska (go-SHEF-ska) is a Do What You Love Coach who awakens people to find their passion and be richly compensated doing what they love.  Based on decades of extensive research and discoveries, she created the unique mastermind and success program Resolved for Results: A step-by-step guide to live your dreams even if you failed before, lost hope, are afraid, stuck or confused.

At top-level leadership positions in international corporations and non-profits, Virginia received awards in sales, training, management and business development. From SE Asia to the U.K., from Canada to Mexico, thousands of people worldwide have benefited from her expertise, support, inspiration, compassionate insights, and common sense. She and her teachings have been called an oasis of cool water in a desert.

Since her crisis from poor health, finances, marriage and career in 1991, she now uses her story of transformation from being burnt out to turned on to help people share their gifts.

Some of her clients’ successes are an oil business worth over $100 million; becoming the City Architect of a major US city; top Realtors; 80% increase in commodity trade profits; and much more.