Do You Have to Work Hard to Make Money?

Here’s what happened to my client that cut her off from getting what she wanted… and how she turned it around.

A seasoned professional’s business plummeted, and she was living off credit cards.

Shortly after coaching with me, she successfully turned her business around as she attained her goal of $1 million in monthly sales.

But suddenly, it all came to a standstill. $700,000 of deals completely fell through with no prospects on the horizon.

What happened?

She was brought up to believe that you have to work hard to get what you want. However, she met a guy, and they’ve been having fun, fun, fun!

Recently, she’s been having so much fun that her limiting belief that “work has to be hard” crept back again. Her financial flow stopped cold in its tracks.

She became aware of her faulty belief, and let it go. During this week’s session, she reported that she’s on track to achieve her goal of $1 million of transactions next month, the time it takes for her deals to process. 

In the meantime, she received a call asking her to consider a totally unexpected, significant income stream. This put needed cash in her pocket now and will continue to do so in the future.

A simple erroneous thought that life and work have to be hard impacts results.

When her fun life became incongruent with that erroneous belief of having to work hard, something had to give. For her, it was to stop making money. That is, until she caught on to her limited thinking and turned it around.

Not getting what you want? There’s an underlying reason for the disconnect.

Whatever you believe is true, you’ll make it true. HOWEVER, you can  turn this around!

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Everything is given according to your belief.

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To turn your life around, change your perspective. Imagine differently. Start by seeing through the eyes of gratitude and having more fun.

“Life is supposed to be fun. No one is taking score of any kind, and if you will stop taking score so much, you will feel a whole lot better — and as you feel a whole lot better, more of the things that you want right now will flow to you… All is really well. Have fun. Have fun. Have fun!”

Abraham-Hicks

Would you love to Break Free in 2023?

If you’d like help clearing limiting beliefs so you
can have what you want, contact me to learn how:
virginia@soulgoals.com • http://www.soulgoals.com

Edited excerpt from Soulgoals’ Post August 21, 2019

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Wonder What Your Future Will Bring?

“When you get to be my age, everything scares you,” an 82-year-old told me. “Just watching TV is enough to make you afraid. You’ll see.” Because I’ve heard similar comments over my lifetime of “when you get to be my age” followed by limited thinking, I paused.I noticed how she shared her negativity in a joking way while her attitude depressed and sucked the life out of people around her. This time instead of reacting, I replied, “I made a decision not to be afraid.” Silence. In contrast, I had a delightful conversation with Ms. Belle, a 79-year-old. She commented that looking at the way we’re talking, anyone would think we’re old friends. We met only 20 minutes earlier in a small, neighborhood store. She told me, “You’ve got to be positive. Life is short.” She’s amazed at how she meets lovely people wherever she goes, and that there are so many wonderful people in the world. She goes to the gym and rides a bicycle. One day, she realized that she loves to exercise. She enjoys talking and having fun with others while there, too. Ms. Belle shared with me the importance of keeping our memory, especially as some people will take advantage of you if you don’t remember things. Hint: Just like you can make a decision not to be afraid, you can choose to retain your memory, even if you feel it’s not as good as you’d like it to be now. Start by no longer talking about and focusing on how you don’t have a good memory! What you talk about becomes your reality, joking or not. So much of life and business are about decisions and perspectives. Which attitudes, behaviors and actions of yours (and others) are you willing to tolerate? Do you see people (including you) and life as inherently bad and evil or good? Your answers will determine your success. Negativity won’t breed positivity. You can’t have a happy ending while feeling miserable along the way. Everyone has beliefs. Many are held onto so dearly that you might feel that if you stopped believing them, you’ll go straight to that inferno down below. Some beliefs upon which you base your life may be the very ones that are holding you back! If you allow fear and a habit of complaining to control you, you could find yourself on a slippery slope that doesn’t lead to success or happiness. Many blame others, blind to connecting the dots of how their own choices and beliefs created their circumstances. Wonder what your future will bring? It will bear the fruit of your current and past thoughts, feelings and attitudes, as the two above-mentioned women demonstrate. Your future will bring you the products of your beliefs and thinking just as your present is a reflection of your past ones. Wonder what your beliefs and thinking have been? Look around you. You have the power within you to choose to be afraid of your own shadow or to be courageous. In this moment, you can change the way you feel about you and the mental picture you carry about yourself and your future. You can decide nothing will stop you from living the life and having the business or work of your dreams, in spite of the odds… regardless of the effects that a pandemic or other circumstances have had on your life. You see, you’re giving others too much power as you even acknowledge how they make you feel. What you’ve got to decide is how I’m going to feel. We would go to a Virtual Reality and we would practice feeling good. Manifestations come on the heels of what you’ve conjured in thought. Abraham-Hicks, Excerpted from North Los Angeles, CA on 3/2/02 Think about you on the other side of the pandemic. Can you see that you’re no longer willing to put up with some of the old ways you’ve been doing things? Do you know you can consciously change your life for the better? If you’d like to learn about a complimentary session so you can start fresh, contact me at virginia@soulgoals.com http://www.soulgoals.com I work with people who choose to share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or would benefit from new tools or support.  I help them be richly compensated in whatever way is meaningful to them by aligning with their Soul’s goals. Updated from Soulgoals’ Archives posted on October 14, 2017 Copyright © 2020 Soulgoals, All rights reserved.

Wonder What Your Future Will Bring?

“When you get to be my age, everything scares you,” an 82-year-old told me. “Just watching TV is enough to make you afraid. You’ll see.” Because I’ve heard similar comments over my lifetime of “when you get to be my age” followed by limited thinking, I paused. I noticed how she shared her negativity in a joking way while her attitude depressed and subdued people around her. This time instead of reacting, I replied, “I made a decision not to be afraid.” Silence. In contrast, I had a delightful conversation with Ms. Belle, a 79-year-old. She commented that looking at the way we’re talking, anyone would think we’re old friends. We met only 20 minutes earlier in a neighborhood store. She told me, “You’ve got to be positive. Life is short.” She’s amazed at how she meets lovely people wherever she goes, and that there are so many wonderful people in the world. She goes to the gym and rides a bicycle. One day, she realized that she loves to exercise. She enjoys talking and having fun with others while there, too. Ms. Belle shared with me the importance of keeping our memory, especially as some people will take advantage of you if you don’t remember things. Hint: Just like you can make a decision not to be afraid, you can choose to retain your memory, even if you feel it’s not as good as you’d like it to be now. Start by no longer talking about and focusing on how you don’t have a good memory! So much of life and business is about decisions and perspective. Which attitudes, behaviors and actions of yours (and others) are you willing to tolerate? Do you see people (including you) and life as inherently bad or good? Your answers will determine your success. Negativity won’t breed positivity. Everyone has beliefs. Many are held onto so dearly that you might feel that if you stopped believing them, you’ll go straight to that inferno down below. Some beliefs upon which you base your life may be the very ones that are holding you back! If you allow fear and a habit of complaining to control you, you could find yourself on a slippery slope that doesn’t lead to success. Many blame others, blind to connecting the dots of how their own choices and beliefs created their circumstances. Wonder what your future will bring? It will bear the fruit of your current and past thoughts, feelings and attitudes, as the two above-mentioned women demonstrate. Your future will bring you the products of your beliefs just as your present is a reflection of your past ones. You have the power within you to choose to be afraid of your own shadow or to be courageous. In this moment, you can change the way you feel about you and the mental picture you carry about yourself and your future. You can decide nothing will stop you from living the life and having the business or work of your dreams, in spite of the odds.   I work with people, at any age, who choose to share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or would benefit from new tools or support.  I help them be richly compensated doing what they love by aligning with their Soul’s goals.

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