Posts Tagged ‘Abraham Hicks’

What Do You Have to Have?

November 12, 2018

 

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What do you have to have? It might be more money, love, health, harmony, happiness or anything.

You feel you need this so much that inside your head you’re practically begging for it.

Consider this quote by Abraham-Hicks. Even though the focus is about money, it applies to whatever you want.

“Most people have put anything that earns money in the category of the things that I HAVE to do. And that is why the money often comes so hard.”  

Have ta, gotta. Seems quite desperate. Sounds obligatory, not fun… and hard to get.

“Have to” makes what you want so BIG that it can seem a very daunting task to ever get it. A goal you want but can’t possibly achieve.

Here’s another point. Think about someone, imaginary or real, who has to have you in their life. They need you. Chase after you. They just gotta have you or else their life will fall apart.

Makes you want to run the other way, right?

Same thing applies to money, love, happiness or anything.

Desperate energy repels the very thing you want.

“Have to” can make you feel like a rebellious kid running away from what you believe you have to do.

Hard feels like a daunting task that you might not be up to do.

Instead, be empowered.

Choose.

Annoyed, a woman challenged me when I told her this. “I have to have a job because I have to have money. What do you want me to do, lose my house?”

I responded to choose to keep her house. “Shift your focus, and your desperation won’t chase away prospective employers who could hire you.”

She found a job.

Like attracts like. What is your energy attracting?


Break the habit of saying that you “have to” have or “have to” do something.

Instead, substitute the word “choose.” By doing this, you tap into a higher, creative energy within you to make more money or achieve any goal.

Test the difference now by using these words in a sentence. Think of something you desire. Put it in a sentence by using a variety of words, found in the examples below.

  • I want more money. (This is pretty weak and generic. Not a strong statement.)
  • I gotta have more money. (Sounds a bit desperate with underlying energy to match.)
  • I have to have more money. (Feels like you could add “or else all is lost” – desperate again.)
  • I don’t know what I’ll do if I don’t get more money. (Poor little, pitiful you.)
  • I choose to have more money. (Can you feel how this determination is empowering?)

When you feel empowered, you have the energy to find clarity and do what it takes to attract, create or find the money or anything you choose!

Create a new habit of stopping yourself, even mid-sentence, so you speak words in a conscious way.

Every word you speak is an affirmation. Your energy and words are attracting whatever you say. From your lips to God’s ears.

Additionally, you’re reprogramming your brain to shift to actually having what you choose instead of just wishing you had it or feeling desperate or like a victim.

When you tune into this energy more and more, you’ll naturally stop your language of limitation and replace it with those that manifest results.

Be vigilant with your words because they reflect your thoughts and feelings and thereby create your outer world.

Wonder why you don’t quite get what you want or have to have sometimes? Learn how to recognize and change the words you speak.

 

I work with people who choose to share their gifts or
business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or
could use new tools or support.I help them be richly compensated doing what
they love. 

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Do You Have a Shortage of What You Want?

November 5, 2018

 

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There’s a saying that goes like this: from your lips to God’s ears.

Do you realize the power of your words and thoughts, even casual ones? Do you realize your own power?

You are not a victim of life’s circumstances.

Most people have a habit of talking about what they don’t have, don’t want, what’s too expensive, how they can’t afford something, what they hope for but wonder if it’s possible that it could happen, or simply complain about what’s not working.

Where’s the focus? On lack. On shortage.

As Job said in 3:25-26 of the New International Version (NIV) of the Bible:

What I feared has come upon me;
what I dreaded has happened to me.
I have no peace, no quietness;
I have no rest, but only turmoil.”

Buddha is quoted to have said: “The mind is everything. What you think is what you become.”

The good news is that you can change your circumstances starting now by shifting your perspective from lack, shortage, fear and worry to focusing on what makes you happy and what you choose.

In doing so, you’ll discover your ability to shape your outer world to enjoy what you really, really want.

First, believe in yourself and realize, the best you can in this moment, that you have access to a power that creates all the universes and that which it contains. 

Below are quotes from two teachers who add more perspective. These ideas are applicable to money or anything!

 

ABRAHAM-HICKS

Continuing to tell stories of shortage only continues to contradict your desire for abundance, and you cannot have it both ways: you cannot focus upon unwanted and receive wanted. You cannot focus upon stories about money that make you feel uncomfortable and allow into your experience what make you feel comfortable. A different story will bring different results.”

“If you are feeling a shortage of time or money, your best effort would be to focus upon better-feeling thoughts, and do more things that make you feel good.”
 

BOB PROCTOR

“One thing you should never, never do, is worry about whether or not you’ll get the amount of money you desire, because we tend to manifest that which we focus on, so if we’re focused and worried about not having money then we tend to attract more of that way of life, as opposed to if we focus on what we do want and what’s possible and what we can achieve, then we tend to gravitate towards that.”

You will attract everything that you require. If it’s money you need you will attract it. If it’s people you need you’ll attract it. You’ve got to pay attention to what you’re attracted to, because as you hold images of what you want, you’re going to be attracted to things and they’re going to be attracted to you. But it literally moves into physical reality with and through you. And it does that by law.”

I work with people who choose to share their gifts or
business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or
could use new tools or support.

I help them be richly compensated doing what
they love. 

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How I COMPLETELY Missed My Goal

October 29, 2018

 

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Small things can be easy to manifest, especially those that don’t come with a risk, like finding a convenient parking spot.

A while ago, I bought several boxes of a particular type of supplement on clearance at a supermarket. Recently, I noticed that I’d run out in a couple of days and casually thought that I’d find something to replace them.

It was an easy intention without any emotional fanfare. A few hours later, I found on clearance at the same market several boxes of a similar supplement by the same company. They may even be better than my original ones.

I had another goal. It was a BIG goal with a quick deadline. I felt pressure because it was important that I reach it; there would be consequences if I didn’t. To achieve it felt as if I were about to climb a mountain without the gear.

While other goals related to it manifested easily, I didn’t even scratch the surface of my BIG goal.

This is why.

I put so much monumental importance on it, and I made it such a BIG thing, that I blew the energy to manifest it. To turn a dream into reality requires a light touch. That’s the opposite of what I had. I couldn’t even imagine attaining my goal beyond giving it lip service.

Here’s more of how I completely missed my goal.

  • While I knew I wanted the goal, I had contradictory thoughts that I could achieve it. I made it so BIG in my thoughts that I doubted my ability to manifest it quickly.
  • Emotionally, I didn’t anticipate achieving it.
  • I couldn’t see myself achieving it.
  • When I thought about it, I couldn’t imagine HOW I could accomplish it. (Another big faux pas – let life figure out the how part).
  • While intellectually I knew it was possible, I didn’t believe I would do it.

So I didn’t manifest it.

Even though it looked like a window closed, the experience prompted me to open a door that I’d been slow to approach in the past. I mean, I could’ve opened Door #1 so long ago that the hinges now had become creaky. However, the door opened once I focused my attention on it.

Regardless of how it appeared, this turned into an opportunity that inspired me to change direction. Although I missed one goal, I learned a lot. I’m now better positioned to create positive results from even bigger ones.

I knew what I’d done, and then I read a quote by Abraham-Hicks to clarify even more. Here’s the quote:

“All the resources you will ever want or need are at your fingertips. All you have to do is identify what you want to do with it, and then practice the feeling-place of what it will feel like when that happens. There is nothing you cannot be or do or have. You are blessed Beings; you have come forth into this physical environment to create. There is nothing holding you back, other than your own contradictory thought. And your emotion tells you you’re doing that. Life is supposed to be fun—it is supposed to feel good! You are powerful Creators and right on schedule.

“Savor more; fix less. Laugh more; cry less. Anticipate positively more; anticipate negatively less. Nothing is more important than that you feel good. Just practice that and watch what happens.”  

 

 
I work with people who choose to share their gifts or
business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or
could use new tools or support.

I help them be richly compensated doing what
they love. 

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My Story – It IS Possible to Reverse Arthritis, Low Energy, Stenosis, Cataracts, Stop Amputation & More!

April 10, 2018

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I thought the pain was the residual discomfort from my hip getting thrown out of alignment a while ago. For several years, I couldn’t find anyone to get it back in place, and that took its toll.

When I was told last year that I had arthritis in my lower back, I wouldn’t identify with the label. Name it and claim it, and I wasn’t claiming it.

That didn’t sit well with my chiropractor who told me there are charts and statistics about how this is what the body does when it ages.

Every week for a month, he was intent on delicately dropping hints about what amounted to how I should face reality. Look at what’s happened to my body. Stop denying the facts.

But I’m thinking that I’m not the others, I’m me. Sure, we get older. However, I don’t see illness or the debilitation of aging in the same way that television and the medical profession might lead us to believe.

If degeneration from aging is an absolute truth, then why is it that there are large populations of people here and around the world who don’t suffer from the aging process?

So why should I have to agree with the masses who believe that the body deteriorates because that’s what they’ve been told and then live a self-fulfilled prophecy?

I choose to focus on being well and finding solutions, not identifying with what’s not working.

My doctor backed off after I politely left him with quotes like these:

Einstein said, “Everything in life is vibration.”

From Abraham-Hicks:

It is natural for my body to be well. Even if I don’t know what to do in order to get better, my body does. I have trillions of cells with individual Consciousness, and they know how to achieve their individual balance.

There are many limiting thoughts in the human environment that can make it seem that these so-called incurable illnesses or unchangeable conditions cannot be changed. But we say that they are only “unchangeable” because you believe they are.

When you stood before the healer [Jesus], He did not allow Himself to see the condition of your illness. Instead He unconditionally knew your intentions that were in your vortex and focused unconditionally on who you really are and therefore did not wobble in His vibration. He didn’t think about what you want and where you are, only about who you really are – and one who is connected to the stream is more powerful than millions who are not – and your illness simply could not abide in His vibration. He dominated the vibration.

You could have every deadly disease known to man, and some they haven’t figured out yet. You could have them all in your body right now… and tomorrow they could all be gone, if from one day to the next you learned how to allow the Energy to flow.

Your cells in your body aren’t old, they keep regenerating. They are new. Your body has the potential of being as young and as vital as it has ever been.


My chiropractic adjustments helped until recently when my condition worsened. I found myself bent over while walking after getting out of bed.  I pushed myself up when rising from a chair. I couldn’t bend over to tie my shoes. I could feel an achiness spreading to other joints. Oh no – when I landed on my back after a fall and twisted my arm, I almost couldn’t get up!

I napped in the afternoons because my energy lagged.

When I felt like I had a pinched nerve whenever I turned my neck, I learned a new word. Stenosis. It’s a narrowing of the spinal canal. When the nerves touch bone – ouch!  It’s a leading cause of back surgery.

This heightened discomfort motivated me to look at YouTube exercises my new chiropractor suggested, which is when I found this.

How I HEALED from STENOSIS – Naturally! – part 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?annotation_id=annotation_1055182789&feature=iv&src_vid=Zq8P6OmJvd0&v=0IA6I8i6KLQ

Prior to this, I had decided to alkalize my body and change the way I eat. This meant including a lot more live foods, like green, leafy vegetables and fruits and excluding foods that create inflammation. Drink more water.

What a concept. Give my body what it needs to heal.

My food choices mirrored a leaky gut diet, which caused me to remember I had a couple of bottles of DR. JOSH AXE’S products for Leaky Gut in my cupboard. I thought I might as well use it up before it expires.

Not long after I started to eat better, and the following day after reading Dr. Debra Katchen’s article on stenosis (which I received from the woman who posted the video), I had an appointment with a medical professional.

I told him that nine out of nine people reversed their stenosis in about six months through homeopathy.

He authoritatively replied that wasn’t a big enough cross section to consider if it worked. It needed to be tested by more like 9000 people. And, by the way, arthritis is what happens when people age. Period. No way around it. Furthermore, it was probably throughout my entire spine.

I told him it cost less than $25 to try the homeopathic remedies, and there was no danger of side effects. I was going to use it.

FIVE DAYS LATER, the flexibility in my spine returned. This week, which is two weeks later, not only did the arthritic pain disappear, but I can turn my head without pinching the nerves in my neck.

I got on a roll when I realized that I could search Google or YouTube for “natural remedies for ____ (the name of the illness)” and discover lots of alternative solutions to healing.

I researched and cross-referenced, and I’m going to share some of what I’ve found to help you gain insight and possible solutions. I’ll mention a few brands I found by reading reviews and recommendations from online articles. This is by no means an exhaustive list. It may give you ideas of what’s possible for you and how to start your exploration.


On YouTube, search Dr. John Bergman and any condition, like strokes.

Dr. Bergman is a chiropractor who’s spot on with his awareness of how the body works. Strokes aren’t caused by high blood pressure but from unhealthy blood. You’ll get an education by listening to his talks as well as learn how to turn conditions around.

http:// https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXMeXC7Wd80


Dr. Eric Berg has a YouTube video called “Natural Remedies for Cataracts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7d1rOYvv5Xw

Dr. Berg gives resources for his information; the links on the bottom of his list are still active. You can find this under the video by opening up “show more” or the little downward arrow to the right if you’re using a cell phone.

The Russians did the research, and you can read about it online. This approach appears to be commonly used in Europe.

There’s a product that can be purchased on Amazon called Can-C. Dr. Berg also references an article about  FAT SOLUBLE Thiamin, Vitamin B-1 (Benfotiame).

The many reviews on Amazon about how Can-C  helps people with their vision and cataracts gave me the impression that there’s really something to it. I ordered both of these products.


My research on arthritis taught me that it’s NOT a degenerative disease and has nothing to do with aging!  Other holistic doctors agree with this assessment.

Search John Bergman and arthritis to see his videos on the real cause of arthritis and what to do about it.

I’ve read that arthritis is a mineral deficiency. Also, its cause is either from trauma or digestion, such as in leaky gut. This is why when my leaky gut started to be repaired, I stopped the inflammation that was beginning to run rampant and created a flare up in the arthritis.

Dr. Josh Axe is an expert in teaching us about leaky gut.

Some products that may help are:

  • Dr. Josh Axe’s leaky gut formulas (these carry a wide spectrum of ingredients that you’ll find on lists of how to heal leaky gut, including turmeric, bioprene, MSM and much more). You can find his info on the internet, Pinterest, YouTube, Facebook.
  • Organic turmeric with bioperine (black pepper) and a 95% extract – also in the leaky gut formula but can be purchased separately. Earth’s Wisdom, 1300 mg looks good.
  • Devil’s Claw – good for arthritis and more.
  • OptMSM, the only MSM made in the USA (not China). I read it doesn’t taste good, but the coarse flakes are the best. Read the rave reviews on Amazon about how this MSM has been transformational in helping people with their joints and energy. Many people use this alone and gain phenomenal results.

About those energy slumps I mentioned, my energy is soaring now from morning to night. I feel like I did in my twenties! The leaky gut formula did it, which also has MSM in it.


On my last post, “Yes, This Miracle Really Happened in my Life,” I wrote about how my hospitalized mother saved her foot from amputation because of diabetes by drinking a quart of high quality aloe vera juice a day for four days.


When you’re body isn’t healthy or you don’t feel well, it’s a distraction that can diminish your ability to enjoy life and to have the desire and energy to live your dreams.

I’ve actually had even more health successes over the last two weeks in addition to these. I’m so elated that I couldn’t think of anything else to share with you except my revelations and reversals with the so-called irreversibles. I know I must continue with my new regimen to stabilize and keep improving my results of flexibility where there wasn’t any.

To continue to be pain free.

To share with you that there may be ways to REVERSE YOUR HEALTH CONDITIONS, regardless of what the doctors and experts say and what you’ve been led to believe.

Find out for yourself by having an open mind and doing the research. Watch YouTube videos. Search the internet.

An alternative is to believe what we’re told, that there’s nothing that can be done, and then suffer.

I realized that a doctor can give “that’s just the way it is” diagnosis during a short visit, but we’re the ones who live with the condition day-by-day. What if there are solutions other than using drugs, which are most doctors’ specialty?

A friend of mine has been suffering for years. Her doctors prescribed drug after drug, which only made her lose her voice, mess up her esophagus, gain weight, have trouble with digestion, be incapable of taking walks, experience daily pain and feel miserable.

She met with a new doctor who told her she needed drugs. When she asked what kind, the doctor replied, “I don’t know, but you need drugs.” My friend laughed and walked away.

Natural remedies aren’t snake oil sold in a medicine show. Do your own research and read reviews. Countless thousands of people aren’t making up their results, and neither am I.

We weren’t plopped on this planet with no way to heal ourselves until drugs came along in the last hundred plus years.

Let food be your medicine.

With gratitude,

Virginia

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I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Stop Working So Hard… Make More Money. Have More Fun!

January 22, 2018

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  • Last year, she retained her standing as #1 in her company that spans several cities.
  • Her business grew 17% over the previous year, grossing her more money in one year than she’s made in her life.
  • She bought a new vehicle with a $52K price tag that she uses for work, more than she ever thought she’d spend on one.
  • She had fun and takes seven weeks of vacation each year.

How did she do it?

Throughout the year, issues and challenges came up for my client. Each time, during her coaching sessions, we clarified how she could address these.

As a result, her motto, which is featured in bold and colored print at the top of her goals and strategy for the year, is now this:

MY JOB IS TO HAVE FUN!

MY ENERGY IS ALIGNED TO HAVE FUN, WORK LESS, EARN MORE MONEY with GRACE & EASE!

She didn’t always feel this way!

When my client started to work with me, she was a rookie. She used to say, her phone was glued to her hip for fear of missing a call and business.

While practicing what she had been taught was the way to success, she became an addict, addicted to her work. By the way, according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, a definition of addict is “to devote or surrender (oneself) to something habitually or obsessively.”

However, she came to realize that she was so busy setting herself up for the future that she wasn’t living in the present.

She was living to work, not working to live.

Work wasn’t enjoyable because she believed she had to retire before having fun. Even when she achieved her goal of seven-weeks of vacation a year, she wasn’t enjoying herself.

People began to annoy her. Work became a chore. She began to long for early retirement until she had this awareness:

“Many of us have been brought up to believe that we’re supposed to work hard, put our nose to the grind stone (ouch) and struggle to get ahead. It’s the way we were programmed to think. But this isn’t true.”

That’s the way she thought until she had a wake-up call due to emergency surgery that took her a year before she got her mojo back. Then she knew she had to approach things differently, and she was open to change.

Recently, after a slower schedule during the holidays, she thought she had to “push herself” to start work again after leisurely vegging on Hallmark TV movies. She felt she had to “make herself” get out of what she felt was her comfort zone, even though she didn’t feel comfortable being there any more.

Her old pattern kicked in of pushing herself out of her so-called comfort zone that actually wasn’t comfortable anymore. What she was ready for was to return to her comfort zone.

Consider this:

She was beginning to feel uncomfortable vegging out. If she simply followed what she felt like doing, stop watching so much TV, and switched her focus of attention to business, she’d be in alignment with what her Essence was guiding her to do.

If you’re pushing or trying to make things happen, you’re working against yourself and the guidance your Essence is communicating to you.

There was no need to make re-engaging in work a struggle. Nor did she have to push herself, create a story about how she had to get back to business or tell herself that she had to stop being so comfortable… because continuing to watch TV had become an UNcomfortable zone.

The key was for her to return to her comfort zone, and continuing to watch TV while berating herself was not comfortable.

It was time to consciously align her energy with her inner spirit instead of fighting it.

Responding to shifting winds while riding in a sailboat requires changing course. It’s just part of the sport. When shifting tides in life occur, change course. It’s just part of life. Associated story and drama are neither required nor helpful.

Your Essence will guide you to where you need to be. If you’re not happy, not having fun, not feeling good, pushing yourself or making yourself wrong for not doing more, no matter how you try to justify it, you’re out of sync with your spirit and inner guidance.

How can you work less? How can you make more money? Have more fun!

 


“Reduce your workload by 30% and increase your fun load by 30% and you will increase your revenues by 100%. And you will increase your productivity by 10,000%. (If there could be such a percentage.) More fun, less struggle — more results on all fronts.”


Abraham-Hicks, Excerpted from Salt Lake City, UT on 9/9/00


A reason this works is that you align your energy to receive wisdom from within. When you do this, you’re guided to the very best direction for you. Follow this, and you’re golden.

Principle #4 in Resolved for Results is “… I take action by following through with my inspiration and guidance.”

When you do what you love, instead of working hard, you’ll do inspired work. Because of this, you’ll be more productive, receive better results, make more money, and most important, enjoy your life more.

If you feel stuck in work or activities you don’t enjoy, find something within that scope that’s pleasing to you. It’s there. When you turn your antenna in a direction to receive greater joy, you will be led to more and more of what you love.

With gratitude,

Virginia

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I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

How You Speed Up (or Slow Down) Money Coming to You

May 15, 2017

A saleswoman told me that people were irritating her – a lot. She was both “losing her cool” and her patience with small thinking, ridiculous behavior and demonstrations of a lack of kindness, consideration and common sense.

To make things worse, she was baffled by her client’s petty issues that almost blew a $1.5 million deal.

It reminds me of the country western lyrics by Billy Currington: “God is great. Beer is good. And people are crazy.”

Recognizing that she’s attracting whatever is going on in her life, she wondered how she created this.

She pieced together cause and effect and saw that her frustration with annoying people was magnetizing others with disgruntled attitudes. Her energy was drawing negative people to her!

By the way, the saleswoman later discovered that the sale represented to her client family disappointments. She was like a volcano ready to explode at anything that could go wrong – or she’d make something wrong to blow off steam.

According to Abraham-Hicks, it only takes 17 seconds to create a thought that attracts more of what you’re thinking and feeling.

Yikes. That’s about a quarter of a minute to design your world – consciously or not.

This is a universal principle. Positive attracts positive; negative attracts negative.

Thoughts build upon each other by attracting other thoughts of a like nature creating thought forms. 17 seconds + 17 seconds + 17 seconds…

Complaining, being hard on yourself, sharing your sad story with others, which invites them to feel as sorry for you as you feel sorry for yourself, attract more circumstances to make you want to pull your hair out.


“When you give your attention to it, if you maintain your focus for as little as 17 seconds, you begin to include its vibration, whatever it is, in your vibration. When you see something you want, and you give it your attention, and you say yes to it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration. When you see something you do not want, and you shout no at it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration.”   


“Most everybody is looking around and vibrating in response to what they are seeing. So, what is the solution? Look around less. Imagine more. Look around less. Imagine more. Until your imagery is the most familiar vibration that you have.”

Abraham-Hicks  


What’s your brain chewing on?

Feel bad because you don’t have more money? You slow down or stop money flowing to you.

Feel good about the idea of having more money? You speed up money coming to you.

Your choice. 

The way out is to decide what would inspire you to feel happy. Then whenever your thoughts turn to the not-so-sunny side of the street, redirect your focus on what creates good feelings.

“I have to face reality” can be the very attitude that holds you back from your heart’s desires.

If your current conditions aren’t what you want, and you continue to focus on them and feel miserable, you’ll get more of the same.

Take care of business, but focus your energy on what you choose to create not on what you don’t like.

You control the way you feel. Don’t give your power away to others or to circumstances.

How would having more money feel? Next focus on other positive ideas about money. Let yourself go to another like-thought. And on and on.

With gratitude,

Virginia

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I work with people who choose to share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how or feel stuck.
I help them ignite their Soul’s goals and be richly compensated doing what they love.

Copyright © 2017 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.