Follow Your Passion: My Impromptu Chat with Musician Ali Pervez Mehdi

May 7, 2018

Sangeet Millineum

 

Doing what you love makes it easier to enjoy a happy life.

I was inspired while talking with Ali, who performed this weekend at the Energies Balanced Spring Yoga Retreat and is singing in the above photo.

My dear friend Amie Maciszewski introduced us. She’s pictured above playing her sitar with the group she founded, Sangeet Millennium.

“It’s all positive.”

“Even the negative is positive,” Ali told us, as I realized I better grab paper and start taking notes. This man exudes happy energy with a ready smile that lights up a room.

He said he knows we’ve heard this before, but it’s about the journey and not the destination.

As he explained, life is the journey. The idea is to enjoy it now and not wait for happiness in the future.

“I used to work in IT and a lot of other jobs, but I wasn’t really happy. So I decided to follow my passion and do what my family has done for generations – play music.”

When he agreed that I could write about him, I wrote the spelling of his name. Ali Pervez Mehdi.

I casually mentioned that I have a CD of beautiful music by a man named Mehdi, and Ali shared a story that he was Mehdi’s grandson.

Really. Wow! They were serious when they told me Ali comes from generations of musicians.

In case you’re not familiar with Mehdi, I did a quick search for you. His gold selling albums have earned him world-wide recognition, which led him to open for Cirque Du Soleil and the California Philharmonic Orchestra amongst other honors. My experience is that his breathtaking music transports us body, mind and spirit.

Music has been Ali’s passion, but he had never committed to it… until he did. “Even though my jobs paid well, I realized this is not me. So I left them.”

Now he travels the world from an array of U.S. cities to Dubai and beyond, singing, performing and being a crew member for other leading musicians.

The pay isn’t the same but he LOVES every minute of it. He’s one of the happiest people I’ve ever met.

To hear the purity of his voice and joyous performance made the audience happy with his choice, too.

He said last year’s problems don’t matter.

When Amie asked which problems, he replied “any problem!”

Are you doing what you love?

Your happiness depends on it.

If happiness and doing what you love have been playing hide and seek, you can bring them to light by a simple shift of focus. Instead of concentrating on what you don’t like, look for what you’re grateful for, what lights you up or feels fun.

Be easy on yourself and enjoy the ride. This is a track that leads to doing what you love.

 

 

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

 

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

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Ready to De-stress? I’m Talking at a Yoga Retreat this Saturday.

May 1, 2018

yoga retreat

Join me at the Energy Balanced Yoga Retreat

  • Friday, May 4, 2018 2:00 PM through Sunday, May 6, 2018 1:00 PM

If you enjoy yoga or would simply love to de-stress, give yourself a mental break or take time to center yourself, I invite you to consider attending a fabulous yoga retreat this weekend or even for one day at the legendary Davis Mountain Ranch Retreat in Bastrop County, Texas.

The community, food, beauty, nature, hay ride, meditation, high quality yoga and classes make it an ideal experience to regroup and just Be.

Lisa Johnson teaches some of the best yoga classes I’ve ever experienced, and there are a other yoga teachers who will be giving classes, too.

Last fall, I had the privilege of facilitating a workshop there, and I’ll be giving one again on Saturday 11:30 – 12:30 AM:

3 Keys to Manifest Your Heartfelt Desires 

Here’s where you can find more information and purchase tickets:

http://www.energiesbalanced.com/yoga-retreats/2018/1/23/energies-balanced-2018-spring-yoga-retreat

If you can make it, I’d love to see you there!


I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

 

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Replay to Keys to Happiness

April 27, 2018

 

I loved being this week’s guest on DuAnne Redus‘ On River Time radio show… and I thoroughly enjoy DuAnne, too! The replay is available until next Thursday. You can listen to our conversation on Keys to Happiness and 3 Steps to Manifesting by clicking on the following link to KWVH’s archive vault, and scrolling down to ON RIVER TIME – THURSDAY https://www.wimberleyvalleyradio.org/archive-vault

 

Join me – I’m the Featured Guest on Thursday’s Show!

April 25, 2018

This is a story about manifesting results and how you can share in them!

During a client’s session last week Wednesday about marketing her business, I casually mentioned that a focus of mine would be becoming a guest on radio shows.

LESS THAN THREE HOURS LATER, I stopped at a supermarket at the moment of its launch for a new home delivery service. There were door prizes, free food, announcements… and a radio station. I introduced myself to the station manager and gatekeeper.

Yesterday, I met with the absolutely wonderful DuAnne Redus, host of On River Time, who told me that her Thursday guest had to cancel and asked if I would I be on this week’s show!  With divine right timing in full swing, my schedule was open, too.

That means, nine days after I mentioned being on a radio show, it manifested. These are the types of results you can manifest, too.

I invite you to hear the magic DuAnne and I will create Thursday from 3-4 PM!

Here’s what she posted and how you can tune in:

On River Time, Thursday at 3 pm CDT, I will feature Virginia Goszewska, to talk about “Keys to Happiness” and other valuable topics. Listen in live at 94.1 FM, KWVH or streaming at http://wimberleyvalleyradio.org

If you miss it, you’ll have one week to listen before they post another show (no archives will be available after next week’s show).

May you manifest your heartfelt desires with grace and ease!

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this show?  Please share.

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

 

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Are you teachable?

April 23, 2018

not teachable

A woman I knew took personal salsa dancing lessons from a friend of mine, who was a big salsa teacher in town. While the woman enjoyed dancing, she had little dance training nor did she have experience in the rhythm or style of Latin dance.

However, that didn’t stop her from telling my friend how she was teaching her wrong and what the steps were supposed to be. She wouldn’t listen to anything other than what she wanted to hear, wouldn’t see how the dance actually looked other than her impression of how she thought it was supposed to look, wouldn’t talk about anything other than her interpretation of what the dance was.

After a couple of classes, she decided to stop the lessons.

She wasn’t teachable, and she wouldn’t allow herself to listen or learn beyond her preconceived ideas.


Several years ago, another woman was desperate to join one of my mastermind programs. Part of the experience is 1:1 partnering sessions, where every couple of weeks team members switch partners. This woman went to each of five team members to share her story in the first week.

After politely listening, each member then redirected her attention to solutions. She wasn’t interested.

Her intention was on others hearing her story and feeling validated. Her focus was centered on her confusion, her circumstances and how what she wanted to do wasn’t working, not on getting on track or manifesting actual results.

Five people called me individually to tell me how they really tried to help her, but she wasn’t open.  Not getting the type of attention she wanted, she left the group after the second week.


“Listen, be teachable. Laugh at good stories and learn to tell them. For as long as you are green, you can grow.”      Mother Teresa

“Be teachable. That is the whole secret.”      Vernon Howard


Being heard by others is a gift. Are you also open to receive?

What can you do to be teachable? Choose to be open to the guidance that life brings you moment by moment. Sounds too simple, but your intention will open you to learn.

Are you open to receive ideas and solutions or is your focus on having your story heard? Are you reliving familiar feelings when you repeat your story?

Are you teachable?

 

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this TIP?  Please share.

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Do You Need More? Are You Where You Know Isn’t Good for You?

April 16, 2018

peas in a pod

A new client hasn’t been paid for two and a half months from a part-time job. When she asks for her check, she gets a chilly response from the supervisor who says the company hasn’t paid them yet and to stop asking about it. She’ll get a call when they’re available.

Aside from being illegal, and we discussed actions to take, why was she putting up with that? The supervisor doesn’t treat her, her time or talent with respect. However, she ‘s full of pride that the people in the facility love my client and her work. She makes the supervisor look good.

My client realized that because she needed the money from this job, she was afraid to stand up for herself. She placed herself in a position where, even though she knew better, she’d been tolerating the supervisor who both belittles and takes advantage of her.

Then she got it. She quoted me a phrase that she frequently heard while growing up:

“Need more” will make you work where you’re not working properly.

In other words, if you’re needy, you’ll find yourself working or being in places that aren’t good for you, where you or your talents won’t be valued or appreciated.

Are there situations or people in your life that aren’t good for you, but you put up with them? If so, do you allow it because you feel you need them?

Neediness can make people do strange things.

Think about it. Perhaps there’s another way. You’re probably stronger than you realize.
 

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this TIP?  Please share.

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals. 

 

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

My Story – It IS Possible to Reverse Arthritis, Low Energy, Stenosis, Cataracts, Stop Amputation & More!

April 10, 2018

Ponds extract

I thought the pain was the residual discomfort from my hip getting thrown out of alignment a while ago. For several years, I couldn’t find anyone to get it back in place, and that took its toll.

When I was told last year that I had arthritis in my lower back, I wouldn’t identify with the label. Name it and claim it, and I wasn’t claiming it.

That didn’t sit well with my chiropractor who told me there are charts and statistics about how this is what the body does when it ages.

Every week for a month, he was intent on delicately dropping hints about what amounted to how I should face reality. Look at what’s happened to my body. Stop denying the facts.

But I’m thinking that I’m not the others, I’m me. Sure, we get older. However, I don’t see illness or the debilitation of aging in the same way that television and the medical profession might lead us to believe.

If degeneration from aging is an absolute truth, then why is it that there are large populations of people here and around the world who don’t suffer from the aging process?

So why should I have to agree with the masses who believe that the body deteriorates because that’s what they’ve been told and then live a self-fulfilled prophecy?

I choose to focus on being well and finding solutions, not identifying with what’s not working.

My doctor backed off after I politely left him with quotes like these:

Einstein said, “Everything in life is vibration.”

From Abraham-Hicks:

It is natural for my body to be well. Even if I don’t know what to do in order to get better, my body does. I have trillions of cells with individual Consciousness, and they know how to achieve their individual balance.

There are many limiting thoughts in the human environment that can make it seem that these so-called incurable illnesses or unchangeable conditions cannot be changed. But we say that they are only “unchangeable” because you believe they are.

When you stood before the healer [Jesus], He did not allow Himself to see the condition of your illness. Instead He unconditionally knew your intentions that were in your vortex and focused unconditionally on who you really are and therefore did not wobble in His vibration. He didn’t think about what you want and where you are, only about who you really are – and one who is connected to the stream is more powerful than millions who are not – and your illness simply could not abide in His vibration. He dominated the vibration.

You could have every deadly disease known to man, and some they haven’t figured out yet. You could have them all in your body right now… and tomorrow they could all be gone, if from one day to the next you learned how to allow the Energy to flow.

Your cells in your body aren’t old, they keep regenerating. They are new. Your body has the potential of being as young and as vital as it has ever been.


My chiropractic adjustments helped until recently when my condition worsened. I found myself bent over while walking after getting out of bed.  I pushed myself up when rising from a chair. I couldn’t bend over to tie my shoes. I could feel an achiness spreading to other joints. Oh no – when I landed on my back after a fall and twisted my arm, I almost couldn’t get up!

I napped in the afternoons because my energy lagged.

When I felt like I had a pinched nerve whenever I turned my neck, I learned a new word. Stenosis. It’s a narrowing of the spinal canal. When the nerves touch bone – ouch!  It’s a leading cause of back surgery.

This heightened discomfort motivated me to look at YouTube exercises my new chiropractor suggested, which is when I found this.

How I HEALED from STENOSIS – Naturally! – part 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?annotation_id=annotation_1055182789&feature=iv&src_vid=Zq8P6OmJvd0&v=0IA6I8i6KLQ

Prior to this, I had decided to alkalize my body and change the way I eat. This meant including a lot more live foods, like green, leafy vegetables and fruits and excluding foods that create inflammation. Drink more water.

What a concept. Give my body what it needs to heal.

My food choices mirrored a leaky gut diet, which caused me to remember I had a couple of bottles of DR. JOSH AXE’S products for Leaky Gut in my cupboard. I thought I might as well use it up before it expires.

Not long after I started to eat better, and the following day after reading Dr. Debra Katchen’s article on stenosis (which I received from the woman who posted the video), I had an appointment with a medical professional.

I told him that nine out of nine people reversed their stenosis in about six months through homeopathy.

He authoritatively replied that wasn’t a big enough cross section to consider if it worked. It needed to be tested by more like 9000 people. And, by the way, arthritis is what happens when people age. Period. No way around it. Furthermore, it was probably throughout my entire spine.

I told him it cost less than $25 to try the homeopathic remedies, and there was no danger of side effects. I was going to use it.

FIVE DAYS LATER, the flexibility in my spine returned. This week, which is two weeks later, not only did the arthritic pain disappear, but I can turn my head without pinching the nerves in my neck.

I got on a roll when I realized that I could search Google or YouTube for “natural remedies for ____ (the name of the illness)” and discover lots of alternative solutions to healing.

I researched and cross-referenced, and I’m going to share some of what I’ve found to help you gain insight and possible solutions. I’ll mention a few brands I found by reading reviews and recommendations from online articles. This is by no means an exhaustive list. It may give you ideas of what’s possible for you and how to start your exploration.


On YouTube, search Dr. John Bergman and any condition, like strokes.

Dr. Bergman is a chiropractor who’s spot on with his awareness of how the body works. Strokes aren’t caused by high blood pressure but from unhealthy blood. You’ll get an education by listening to his talks as well as learn how to turn conditions around.

http:// https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXMeXC7Wd80


Dr. Eric Berg has a YouTube video called “Natural Remedies for Cataracts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7d1rOYvv5Xw

Dr. Berg gives resources for his information; the links on the bottom of his list are still active. You can find this under the video by opening up “show more” or the little downward arrow to the right if you’re using a cell phone.

The Russians did the research, and you can read about it online. This approach appears to be commonly used in Europe.

There’s a product that can be purchased on Amazon called Can-C. Dr. Berg also references an article about  FAT SOLUBLE Thiamin, Vitamin B-1 (Benfotiame).

The many reviews on Amazon about how Can-C  helps people with their vision and cataracts gave me the impression that there’s really something to it. I ordered both of these products.


My research on arthritis taught me that it’s NOT a degenerative disease and has nothing to do with aging!  Other holistic doctors agree with this assessment.

Search John Bergman and arthritis to see his videos on the real cause of arthritis and what to do about it.

I’ve read that arthritis is a mineral deficiency. Also, its cause is either from trauma or digestion, such as in leaky gut. This is why when my leaky gut started to be repaired, I stopped the inflammation that was beginning to run rampant and created a flare up in the arthritis.

Dr. Josh Axe is an expert in teaching us about leaky gut.

Some products that may help are:

  • Dr. Josh Axe’s leaky gut formulas (these carry a wide spectrum of ingredients that you’ll find on lists of how to heal leaky gut, including turmeric, bioprene, MSM and much more). You can find his info on the internet, Pinterest, YouTube, Facebook.
  • Organic turmeric with bioperine (black pepper) and a 95% extract – also in the leaky gut formula but can be purchased separately. Earth’s Wisdom, 1300 mg looks good.
  • Devil’s Claw – good for arthritis and more.
  • OptMSM, the only MSM made in the USA (not China). I read it doesn’t taste good, but the coarse flakes are the best. Read the rave reviews on Amazon about how this MSM has been transformational in helping people with their joints and energy. Many people use this alone and gain phenomenal results.

About those energy slumps I mentioned, my energy is soaring now from morning to night. I feel like I did in my twenties! The leaky gut formula did it, which also has MSM in it.


On my last post, “Yes, This Miracle Really Happened in my Life,” I wrote about how my hospitalized mother saved her foot from amputation because of diabetes by drinking a quart of high quality aloe vera juice a day for four days.


When you’re body isn’t healthy or you don’t feel well, it’s a distraction that can diminish your ability to enjoy life and to have the desire and energy to live your dreams.

I’ve actually had even more health successes over the last two weeks in addition to these. I’m so elated that I couldn’t think of anything else to share with you except my revelations and reversals with the so-called irreversibles. I know I must continue with my new regimen to stabilize and keep improving my results of flexibility where there wasn’t any.

To continue to be pain free.

To share with you that there may be ways to REVERSE YOUR HEALTH CONDITIONS, regardless of what the doctors and experts say and what you’ve been led to believe.

Find out for yourself by having an open mind and doing the research. Watch YouTube videos. Search the internet.

An alternative is to believe what we’re told, that there’s nothing that can be done, and then suffer.

I realized that a doctor can give “that’s just the way it is” diagnosis during a short visit, but we’re the ones who live with the condition day-by-day. What if there are solutions other than using drugs, which are most doctors’ specialty?

A friend of mine has been suffering for years. Her doctors prescribed drug after drug, which only made her lose her voice, mess up her esophagus, gain weight, have trouble with digestion, be incapable of taking walks, experience daily pain and feel miserable.

She met with a new doctor who told her she needed drugs. When she asked what kind, the doctor replied, “I don’t know, but you need drugs.” My friend laughed and walked away.

Natural remedies aren’t snake oil sold in a medicine show. Do your own research and read reviews. Countless thousands of people aren’t making up their results, and neither am I.

We weren’t plopped on this planet with no way to heal ourselves until drugs came along in the last hundred plus years.

Let food be your medicine.

With gratitude,

Virginia

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this TIP?  Please share.

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Yes, This Miracle Really Happened in My Life

April 2, 2018

I’m going to share something that I haven’t written about publicly, because many people will think it’s unbelievable. This is 100% true.

These experiences might help you to consider that other possibilities exist, even when circumstances in your life might be challenging or look hopeless.

At the time, I’d just moved to New York City from Washington, D.C. for a position in an aloe vera company. I hadn’t even unpacked.

I was preparing for my grand opening, which was attended by over 700 people in the Starlight Room at the Waldorf Astoria. While the company was international, it was ranked as a top 10 performer on the Inc. 500 list, a list of the fastest growing private companies in the U.S.

Although this management position was usually only given to couples, I was the only single female in the world that held this leadership role. Add to this, I was hired to open the Big Apple and New York State. Previously, I’d been a distributor for a couple of years.

In other words, this opening was a big deal for the company and me.

However, my mother couldn’t attend, and I couldn’t visit her (as I was getting over a cold, in addition to everything else). She was three hours away in the hospital.

My mother was scheduled to have her foot amputated because it had been black from diabetes for several weeks. 

As soon as I could after a successful opening, I returned to my hometown and arranged for her to drink one quart of a high quality aloe vera gel daily for four days. That’s how many days we had before the surgery.

While she was in the hospital, we snuck in the drink for her without getting permission. She trusted me, and this was worth the chance. The only thing she had to lose was her foot!

On the morning the doctors prepared to amputate, they unwrapped her bandages.

They saw pink for the first time, which let them know there was circulation. They cancelled the surgery!

She had both feet when she was laid to rest years later,

The knowledgeable team of experts considered the amputation as an inevitable given.

For myself, though, having heard countless, powerful testimonials about how this aloe gel positively affected diabetes, I felt confident there was a good possibility we could turn it around. And we did.

You can use the limitation of so called “reality” as a springboard on your way to greater renewal. You know it’s there, but don’t let it block the creative force that’s speaking to you, guiding you, whispering other possibilities.

You don’t have to accept limitations, your own or those that others put on you. No matter who they are. 

There might be alternatives to beliefs that even authority figures hold dearly.

You become the story you tell yourself.

You can change your habitual way of thinking.  Change your story, what you tell yourself.


Once, I met a woman who was driving a golf cart to take friends and myself around an entertainment facility. The day was very hot, and it seemed that this work would interest someone a lot younger, not a woman her age. 

I inquired how she got the job. Turned out that she was actually the manager of this fairly large business, and she was filling in for an employee who didn’t show up.

She told us that she’d been without a job for a while when she noticed an ad for help, and she called and left a message. To her surprise, she got a call back and quickly got the job.

After hearing her recount her story in detail, she said words that pierced me. Many years have passed, and I’ve neither forgotten them or the emphasis she gave them upon speaking:
 

“Your whole life can turn on a dime.”

When the business more than doubled in size, her job grew along with it.

In short, at her age and jobless, opportunities didn’t look promising. 

Nevertheless, she took action in directions that many would have considered improbable. In the merry-go-round of life, with multiple iron rings within reach, she grabbed her brass ring that created an opening beyond her imagination. 

Since then, especially when I didn’t see a way out of dire situations, I’ve leaned on her words, sometimes for days. It worked for her. Why not believe they might work for me? Given time, something would happen where my life suddenly turned on a dime.
 


Your inner Essence is guiding you even as you’re reading this. As long as you don’t put a ceiling on what’s possible, new solutions can reveal themselves to you.

Be willing to follow through on your inner nudges and new ideas that come to you. They may hold your life-turning dime.

Be open to renewal.

Allow yourself to resurrect possibilities where you thought there weren’t any.

When you change your story about yourself and what’s possible, miracles can happen.

You’re more likely to see them if you let go of your past burdens and see your bright present with fresh vision.

A new way of seeing things can move you forward more quickly with grace and ease, without going any faster. It’s like taking an express train instead of the local, which makes many stops and can be more exhausting because it takes a lot longer.

Both trains will get you to your destination. Which do you choose? Your answer will match the story you tell yourself about your life and what’s possible.

Don’t settle for what you’ve been told, even for what you’ve always believed is true.

Be willing to explore different ways of seeing and doing things.

Anticipate receiving miracles.

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this TIP?  Please share.

As a Do What You Love Coach,
I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Feel Overwhelmed with the Clock Ticking?

March 26, 2018

clocks and woman

A mastermind team did an exercise called “Strategy for Success,” which included prioritizing personal and professional goals, identifying obstacles, followed by strategies to overcome each one. If there was a roadblock, what could they do about it?

Procrastination was a big obstacle. Many delays were due to questioning themselves. Are they capable? Are they good enough? Are they doing the right thing?

Avoidance happened when their goals involved new activity and knowledge that differed from how they’d done things in the past. They were growing their businesses in new ways, which meant doing things they’d never done before.

Venturing into an arena unknown to them brought on self-doubt, which immobilized them from moving forward.


One woman, who took on a new-to-her project, didn’t know how to complete it. She simply didn’t have the expertise to finish the job. With deadlines looming, she held herself back from doing a pile of other work, that she easily knows how to do, until she finished her worrisome project.

It turned out that a business associate had already offered, completely free of charge, to help her every step of the way. He also told her point blank that she was fully capable of doing this work on her own once she learned the steps.

All she really needed was help to walk through each step. Then she’d have it.

After she completed his initial instructions, she felt that she should know how to finish it on her own. However, because she had no prior experience with it, there’s no way she could know.

She was stuck because her self-esteem felt jeopardized.

She didn’t want to call him for help because that made her feel there was something wrong with her abilities and herself. That she wasn’t good enough.

So she remained frozen for way too long, which meant she wasn’t receiving income for a stack of work she could do.

By changing her perspective, she was able to see how asking for help had nothing to do with her self-worth, and she was willing to contact him again. 
 


When going outside the known and our comfort zone, when choosing to take ourselves to another level, it’s likely new tools and skills will be needed. This has nothing to do with not being good enough or a reason to be afraid of rejection!

Once we get over our “yes, buts,” “you don’t understand,”  “I was told this is the way it is (or I am),” “there’s nothing that can be done” and countless other reasons we try to legitimize why we do things the way we’ve always done, new solutions can appear.

The answers to get you through any challenge live within you. You’ll either get pointed in a direction, a direct insight will come, you’ll overhear something by chance… somehow your personal GPS will show you the way.

Pay attention to your inner nudges. They provide clues.

Be open to step back and see things in a new perspective. The seemingly impossible may actually be possible with a different approach.

Niels Bohr, who won the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1922, wrote this:

“Every great and deep difficulty bears in itself its own solution. It forces us to change our thinking in order to find it.”

Bohr, who contributed to understanding atomic structure and quantum theory, tapped into his creativity to use outside the box thinking, which allowed him to be part of breakthrough discoveries.

Expand your territory. Change your perspective. Open to breakthroughs.

P. S. Know someone who might be interested in this TIP?  Please share.

I work with people, at any age,
who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

Copyright © 2018 Resolved for Results, All rights reserved.

Is That Really What You Think About Yourself?

March 20, 2018

circle of words

 

Your thoughts about yourself create your future.

So what have you been telling yourself about you recently?

Stupid, smart, not good enough, grateful?

Is that really what you think about yourself?

If you want more money, which thinking do you believe works best?

  • I really need it, but I don’t think I’ll ever get paid what I’m worth.
  • (In spite of my circumstances) I feel that more money is coming to me.

If you want more of something, feel as if you already have it. You won’t get what you want (or you could be miserable or not hold onto it) if you’re waiting for it to appear before you believe it.

A client, whose goal includes increasing her sales and income, wasn’t talking like someone who already had the wealth she desired. She was working hard and fast, and her curt attitude had an adverse affect on her support team who, in turn, did small actions to annoy her.

During a Soulgoals Session, she realized that if she took a few more minutes to have smoothe interactions with them, instead of communicating by terse emails, she would receive more help and have less stress and irritation. Their attitude about her was disruptive and consumed unnecessary amounts of her time and energy.

She had been seeing herself as someone pushing to get to the top instead of being there.

You have to be an energetic match for what you want.

If you want better health, act as if you have it. You’ll send a message of health to your cells.

A woman, who had a stroke, has been making tremendous progress. She definitely has the potential of continuing to overcome its effects, too. She’s learned much about herself during her year of recovery and has her sights set on wellness.

She emailed me about a vacation tour she planned to take with disabled people, but she decided not to go because she’s choosing to attend another event instead.

I replied: Not going “may be a good thing so you don’t identify with being disabled and surrounding yourself with others who believe that about themselves. How you see yourself is a key to the direction you’ll find yourself in the future. See yourself able-bodied.”

Your thoughts about yourself are just mental concepts. Your thoughts and ideas are only pictures in your mind, and often times they were downloaded into your brain by others.

The tendency is to accept all of your perceptions as real because they’re in your head. However, they’re limiting because more possibilities exist than you can imagine.


Wallace D. Wattles says it this way in his book The Science of Getting Rich:
 

“To look upon the appearance of disease will produce the form of disease in your own mind, and ultimately in your body, unless you hold the thought of the truth, which is that there is no disease; it is only an appearance, and the reality is health.

 “To look upon the appearances of poverty will produce corresponding forms in your own mind, unless you hold to the truth that there is no poverty; there is only abundance


What do you think about yourself? 

Do you say you want more money but think about yourself as poor, in lack or needy?

Do you say you want greater health but see your body as sick?

How you identify who you believe you are now is writing your script for who you’ll be in the future.

If you focus on your outer circumstances, you’ll repeat them in the future. Focus on what you choose instead.

You embody unlimited potential for whatever you choose or something better. You can think about yourself in this way.

Don’t be fooled by appearances, and certainly don’t beat yourself up because you feel you’re not good enough. Your current circumstances exist because of old ways that you thought about yourself.

You always have a choice about how you feel and think, even if things seem out of your control.

Imagine what life would be like if you see yourself as the hero of your dreams coming true!

With gratitude,

Virginia

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who choose to share their gifts
or business in a BIGGER way
but don’t know how, feel stuck
or would benefit from new tools
or support.

I help them be richly compensated
doing what they love by aligning
with their Soul’s goals.

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