We met by chance when he was house hunting, and I just happened to be outside a home I hadn’t moved into yet.
After our brief meeting, he bought the house next door because he created a fantasy about the two of us getting married.
This sweet man desperately wanted a woman.
Even as time went on, he didn’t have an interest to know me, my beliefs, what I do or if I cared about him. I was “nice,” and that’s all that mattered.
He so needed to feel loved. It was really all about him.
Needy people try to get fulfillment from something outside of themselves that they haven’t found within.
When he put serious moves on me, I told him that I didn’t need him.
He heard this before when his ex-wife said the same thing on her way out the door.
I didn’t say it to hurt him. I’ve learned to guide my life by choice not neediness, especially when it comes to relationships.
Eventually, he found someone in a place of hardship who literally needed help. They got married, and he moved.
I see them on occasion. Now that the crisis has passed, they don’t look too happy together.
Whatever you chase after, because you need it, runs in the other direction.
This can appear to be a brain twister, but follow along because it’s a key to life.
It’s the reason you can have good relationships and, well, everything.
If you want or need a relationship, it means you don’t have one. Energetically, something’s missing. Lack attracts lack. You’re left wanting but not having.
However, when you come from a place of having, you attract to you more of what you have. From an energy perspective, it doesn’t matter if you actually have it. The key is that you have the feeling within that you do.
It’s the same with needing business or money. If you need it, you push it away.
You can have anything you choose, as long as you don’t want it.
I told you this can be a brain twister. The more you get it, though, changes your life for the better.
When you want something, you’re sending out the energy of lack or not enough, what you don’t have.
Lack energy implies what you want is out there somewhere, but you don’t have it. You’re incomplete. So it will always be out there somewhere.
Ever run after a child or pet? They run the other way.
Ever have someone want you and chase after you? You feel like running and hiding.
Your goals and money will run away from you, too, if they’re out there somewhere and you’re chasing them.
Do you choose to want more or to actually have it?
This isn’t double talk. Consider it this way. Wanting and having are opposing energies.
You can’t drive forward and in reverse at the same time. At best, you’d go in circles.
The way out of this conundrum?
Let go.
This is why I created my Liberation of Lunacy (LoL) technique. Because we’re all a little crazy when the ego takes over and fills us with fear, anxiety, neediness, limit and doubt.
Instead of needing more money, business, time or a relationship, come from a place of “all your needs are met beyond your wildest expectation.”
That’s a first step in letting go.
Today is your day.
Total eclipse.
Ready to have your life eclipse for the better?
Claim it.
Be sure to include having fun and living with gusto!
P.S. Know someone who might enjoy reading this? Please forward.
Reprinted from Soulgoals Blog Archives: August 21, 2017
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