I had a list of deadlines, and I didn’t know how to accomplish them.
As getting worried and trying to make things work just flusters me and makes my actions ineffective, I skipped that step. So, I observed rather than reacted. I had a few gasps of what’s-going-on when surprises came, and then I let them go. And when I did, things worked out. Room and car rental reservations went askew, then came together improved. People showed up from unexpected sources when it looked like they wouldn’t. Not always the way I thought they would but usually better. Support magically came my way on a hodgepodge of issues, one after the other. Without fanfare or praying to be saved, I let go and let God. Being open to receive and an attitude of “things either are going to work or not work” allowed me to let go emotionally. Why bother getting upset over things not happening the way I think they should or didn’t happen yet? Trying to control the uncontrollable never helps. Even though I felt emotionally detached, I held a clear vision of my outcomes manifesting while I released the need to know how. Step at a time, they worked out! Sometimes minutes after I realized I had an issue, the answer appeared. The day after a life-changing event, someone shared with me potentially bigger changes. Practically speaking, the prospects didn’t look good. The consensus of everyone in power was this is a done deal. It would be easier on them if they could just close out the issue and move on. That seemed better for everyone except the woman who was told she’d have to sell her car, move out of town, live away from friends and neighbors, and lose her home she’s lived in for decades. My suggestion: ultimately, if you can’t find a solution, then let it go. However, don’t start with the premise that nothing can be done. With this perspective, solutions won’t be found. Instead, start with the end in mind. See that this can work, then look for ways how. The answers present themselves in divine right timing. I received an update a few minutes ago. A week after she was told she’d have to give up her home and car, ways were found to keep them! There’s always a soulution to a problem. In fact, it exists before we become aware of the issue. Know that within you are your new directions, answers and clarity — for your business, work and life. You can reveal these by allowing the swirl of emotions to calm so you can hear your quiet voice within. Instead of trying to make things happen, allow yourself to receive. Focus on a solution, and things can fall into place, in spite of how it looks to the contrary. With gratitude, Virginia I work with people, at any age, who choose to share their gifts or business in a BIGGER way but don’t know how, feel stuck or would benefit from new tools or support. I help them be richly compensated doing what they love by aligning with their Soul’s goals. |
Tags: Clear vision, How to meet deadlines, Losing car, Losing house, Things fall into place, Things work out, Trying to control
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